The words I hear so often when I tell people that we eat gluten free is, “that would be so hard. I can’t imagine doing that!” And you know, I had the same thoughts when Samuel was diagnosed with Celiac Disease. I remember wandering through Target, with tears in my eyes, being overwhelmed because the entire store felt off-limits. Full of gluten. None of which my sweet little one could eat.
But, here I am, 15 months later, and I can tell you that living the gluten free life, while it is hard, can still be rewarding, taste good, and can be manageable to the point where instead of being hard it becomes normal. For today’s post I’m listing ten things I’ve discovered about living gluten free and then linking each fact to a post that I’ve written that goes along and compliments it.
1. Find a friend. {I am going to give thanks no matter what}
When Samuel was diagnosed with Celiac Disease I was overwhelmed. I felt like I was alone in this vast world of no gluten eating. My pediatrician, the doctors at the hospital, the GI Doctor, and the nutritionist all told me to connect with a support group. Find a friend. Seek out those who understand this, have been there a bit longer, and reach out to them. And I did. I joined Celiac.com and R.O.C.K. {Raising Our Celiac Kids} and I started blogging about our journey. Through times, I’ve developed a network of go-to people. And, I hope that I can be that type of friend, that resource, for many of you. Celiac moms – you are not alone.
2. Figure out what you can have. The Life Juice {well, actually it’s a smoothie}
Not eating gluten means living in a world where most items are off limits. Instead of focusing on what you can’t eat, instead find some things that you can eat. Find restaurants that you enjoy. Find flours that work as an excellent substitute. Stock your home with treats for those times, those inevitable times, where you wish you could have a gluten treat {I’m thinking the Udi’s Chocolate Muffins.} You would be surprised at how much food is gluten free and what is available.
3. Prepare yourself to talk about gluten free a great deal. what i learned & coming to grips
There is not a week that goes by where I’m not talking about gluten free food, or Celiac Disease, or sharing Samuel’s story. Instead of shying away from this opportunity I’ve embraced this role and pray that my words can bring hope and healing to another in this situation. I’ve also found that by sharing his story that it helps bring awareness. There are many times where I’ll have conversations with random strangers at Costco or Trader Joes about gluten free food/celiac because they’ve overheard me asking someone about the samples given or for the gluten free list.
4. Carry food with you. gf super delicious peanut butter cookie
This is challenging, especially if you have young ones as I do. I absolutely must take food with me for Samuel whereever I go. Most convenience foods have gluten in them as do most fast food places {on Samuel’s well-child visit I checked “never” for how many times a week he has fast food as he absolutely cannot eat any of it.}. I bring snacks for him at church, when we go out, and for shopping trips. I am still looking for a great gluten free substitue for Goldfish crackers. Food manufacturers? Did you hear that? Gluten free goldfish. Please.
5. You will say “no”. gluten free life
That is hard. There are many, many, many times where I have to say “no” because of not eating gluten. Samples at the store, in the church nursery {no snacks}, at playdates and more. In fact, I’ve gotten to the point where I’ll offer to bring the snacks so that Samuel’s snacks are the same as the other kids. It makes it easier, and it eliminates the concern that he will accidentally eat a gluten full goldfish that dropped.
6. No Playdough. letter to my celiac disease fighter
This came as a shock to me. Playdough and the other dough {I think it’s made by Fisher Price} are made with wheat. A child with Celiac Disease {or a gluten/wheat allergy} absolutely cannot play with playdough. They get the wheat on their hands and then it gets in their mouths. This is hard. It means that when Samuel is in a class at church that NO ONE can play with playdough. My church, my friends, they all understand, but it is humbling to make an entire system change like that.
7. You will cry. dear mom of the little boy with celiac disease
I cry often. Many times it’s because I am so grateful for Samuel’s health. But other times, like when I cried in the flour aisle at Christmas, it is because it is hard. Living gluten free takes diligence, work, and creativity. And there are some days where one simply gets worn from never being able to simply grab something off the shelf without careful scrutiny of the ingredients. Most often I shed the tears when I realize that for Samuel he can never cheat, never have that cupcake at a birthday party, and that his whole life will be gluten free. In fact, I already pray that he meets a wonderful spouse who enjoys gluten free cooking and embraces this diet. 🙂
8. Look for substitutes. why a chocolate chip bagel made me cry
Soy Sauce? Has gluten. However, you can purchase gluten free Tamari Sauce. Chicken broth? Has gluten. However, again, you can purchase chicken broth that is gluten free. We’ve found a favorite macaroni {Trader Joes}, corn/rice noodles {they work well in cold pasta dishes as well}, and more as substitutes for what we used to eat. In fact, my menu? It has NOT changed from prior to Samuel’s diagnosis. Instead, I’ve adapted all of our old favorites and made them gluten free. Hmmm….maybe an ebook? What do you think? Should I continue pursuing this?
9. Call companies. Dear Food Manufacturers
I have been on the phone with General Mills, ConAgra, Land of Frost, Kraft, Caribou Coffee {yep, that’s important}, and more asking about their gluten free products. If you don’t know? Call. And, by the way, I make it a point to THANK companies who go the extra mile to clearly label their items gluten free. If I see that label on a product I will buy it because I know it is certified gluten free and safe. Expect to pay more. Gluten free Bisquick costs about $4.59 for a box half the size. I’ve found baking from scratch is cheaper, but even then, expect to pay more for anything flour related. A 4 pound bag of Pamela’s Gluten Free Flour at Whole Foods costs about $17. Yep. So cook wisely. 😉
10. You will find normal. switching perspectives & one year, the celiac disease fight
It will be a new normal, but you will find normal. It is challenging living in a gluten full world and society, but I will tell you that gradually you will discover a new normal for yourself or your child. You’ll find restaurants, foods, how-to-cook, and well, normal. Over the next weeks I’ll be putting together a mini e-book listing some of our favorite foods, tips, and tricks for living gluten free in a very gluten full world. Bottom line? You are not alone. There is an entire community of those with Celiac Disease, gluten allergies, and other food allergies.
Questions? Thoughts? Any ideas? How many of you know about gluten free living? How many of you know someone with Celiac Disease or gluten/wheat allergies? Please share your story. And please share with me my excitement today — Udi’s Gluten Free Foods now has my Udi’s Gluten Free Snickerdoodle Pie Crust Chocolate Pie Recipe on their blog. Cool!
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19 comments
Great post! This will be a huge resource for people starting out on the gluten free journey!!
i won’t be going gluten free {but there are extenuating circumstances as to why and i won’t get into those} but i think these tips are great. even for someone who’s not gluten free!
and also, samuel with all the jam on his face? just precious. i just want to hug him. :))
-jocee <3
I love this post!! Although I’ve not dealt with GF I have dealt with minor allergies in my sons when they were little. Your words reminded me how hard just those little things were and opened my eyes to what a GF or highly allergic child must deal with day to day. (Friend at church has two “epi pen” kids with life threatening allergies making church events and socials exceedingly trying.)
I love that you use this as an opportunity to educate, reach out, share, and give of yourself. You are a beautiful example of grace in action.
Question – how do us non GF folks best serve our GF friends? I’d love to bring GF foods to socials etc. give us a list too, please? Love you bunches – Maggie
Yes, please make a cookbook! I encourage you to do that even though my child wouldn’t be able to eat from it. As a mom of a severe multiple food allergic child, I find great value in finding a new cookbook. I’m sure it’s the same for Celiac families.
This is so good, Rachel! It is such a big encouragement to me to read these posts of how you’re responding to difficulty with joy, patience, and love. When I was younger, my little sister and I were both allergic to so many things, like dairy and nuts, and it was challenging to live with. But like you, we found a new normal. (Thankfully, I’m not allergic to much any more.)
xo//simi
p.s. my mom always made our own play dough, and you can substitute rice or spelt flour for wheat flour.
these are such great reasons…the number one being that sweet little Sammy boy you love so much!
is it bad that i’m secretly wishing someone in your family was allergic to eggs so you could make a list like this for me? : )
this is such a wonderful resource. and really, it is so good for me because i’m suppose to avoid gluten mostly to see if it helps with some problems i have. we’ll see!
Oh my gosh this is such a great resource!! I retweeted it earlier but just had time to sit down and read it. THANK YOU! It is hard, and overwhelming. There are so many tricks to be learned. Forwarding this to friends!
I just found out I had to give up most dairy and eggs! I am okay with gluten but took out a bunch of food allergy books and came across lots of great ideas for gluten free. Have you read the book “Cooking for Isaiah”? It is gluten free if you are interested.
My niece has a gluten allergy. Her dad passed away three weeks ago and as people began bringing food over for my sister and my other niece, they didn’t realize that my niece couldn’t eat what they had brought over. The best thing that happened was that someone from their church blessed her with gift certificates to a gluten free restaurant. I am going to pass your post over to my sister. Thanks!
Check out the company Soy-yer for a Play-doh alternative. I saw them featured on Shark Tank and they make gluten free “Play-doh.” They also make a rice version. I bought it for my niece for her birthday b/c she is allergic to everything under the sun and she loves it.
http://store.soy-yer.com/
You are amazing and a gift to so many out there who need all this that you offer …
What a fabulous post sweet friend.
Great ideas!!
Hi! I found this Goldfish recipe at Pioneer Woman http://tastykitchen.com/recipes/desserts/homemade-goldfish-crackers/ I used sprouted wheat flour, but I’m sure you could try substituting rice flour or possibly something you think might work? Just a thought. I love making my own goldfish crackers! 🙂
I love how God is using your voice to help so many in this fight. You are truly inspiring my friend!
Love that face and oh those blue eyes!
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Isaiah 40:28-31 Hast thou not known? hast thou not heard, that the everlasting God, the LORD, the Creator of the ends of the earth, fainteth not, neither is weary? there is no searching of his understanding. He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength. Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall: But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
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What a great list of tips! I am not celiac but am gluten sensitive and know from experience how hard it is to find products to use and how hard it is to eat out, even at restaurants that try to be accommodating. I definitely think you should work on the e-book!
I have been blessed with a great church. My three kids must be gluten-free and playdough was a big deal for us too. Our church was gracious and spent the money and made gluten-free playdough for all the kids to play with and that way my kids could join in the fun. So maybe ask that as an option so the kids can still have fun and feel more “normal.” Even if you made it for them, that is a viable option than to say no all together.
Your blog has been so great for me. I came across it this weekend as I began researching celiac in babies. My son is like yours 15 months old and not growing. He hates eating and always has. He’s being tested for Celiac and I’m pretty sure that’s what it is. Although it’s not confirmed yet your story gives me hope. Thank you for sharing! Also, what app do you use to check to see if foods are gf?