save the tree cut. a simple memory.

by Rachel Marie Martin

We save the tree cut from our Christmas tree every year. In fact, and I’m editing this in….this is the one tradition that I’ve kept even after my divorce. For some reason those little pieces of wood represent strength and bravery and courage. And this is the third Christmas we’ve had in Nashville now, so even those “new” tree cuts mean a great deal to the kids. 

It’s a simple, inexpensive, and very easy tradition to start.

Unless, of course you don’t get a real tree.

The kids, especially the little boys, love to play with those pieces of memory wood.

 

Someday, Lord willing, my grandchildren will look through that pile of tree trunk cuts and then I can tell them about this year and the years to come. Years of good times and bad times and normal times and joy times all wrapped into a package called one’s life.

Save your tree cuts. Write the date. Life will never be perfect, but it can be good. 

It’s a simple way to remember.

~Rachel 

edited to add: since I first published this in 2013 my family has gone through a divorce and moved cross country. But we’ve also had amazing things happen – several of my children have graduated, we’ve traveled the country and we are stronger than ever. Memories matter, no matter what. 

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18 comments

Mallory December 15, 2011 - 1:56 pm

This is a fabulous idea that I have never heard of. We’ve had a fake tree the past few years but when we decided to switch to real I will definitely be doing this.

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Sisters 'N Cloth December 15, 2011 - 2:03 pm

That is beautiful! I’m into specifics, so can I ask how you save them? Do you display them? Keep them in a bag? Do they only come out at Christmas time?

~Melissa

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Patti December 15, 2011 - 2:06 pm

What a sweet way to keep a memory. Lovely idea.

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Rebecca December 15, 2011 - 2:13 pm

What a GREAT idea! When we go back to a real tree, we’ll have to do that!!

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Arodyank December 15, 2011 - 2:24 pm

this is absolutely wonderful. makes me want to chuck our cheap fakie so we can get on board. : )

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Kelli December 15, 2011 - 2:25 pm

That, my friend, is a beautiful tradition.

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carissa at lowercase letters December 15, 2011 - 2:26 pm

okay. WEIRD!!!! i wrote the above comment on my computer and was signed it as that strange name. this is creepy!!!! this is Carissa. i have no clue who that person is. anyways. i do love the tree cuts.

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JuJu and Family December 15, 2011 - 3:04 pm

I love this idea! I may have to start doing that. Our family is recovering from a Griswold type road trip still. If you have time, come and read. It’s sure to make you laugh. Take care! I’ll be returning to your blog for homeschool stuff. We also homeschool.

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ArtyMarti December 15, 2011 - 3:06 pm

What a simple way to build memories. The artist in me is already thinking of ways to use them, display them, finish them. You family will have many memories to share.

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hi-d December 15, 2011 - 3:50 pm

What a great tradition. I’ve never heard of that before.

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Coby December 15, 2011 - 6:32 pm

I LOVE this! I may start getting a real tree just to do this!!! (I’m a fan of the fake, I admit it!)

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Modern Day Disciple December 15, 2011 - 6:33 pm

We do this too! I love it! mY DAUGHTER ACTUALLY DECORATED ONE, OTHERWISE THEY MOSTLY HAVE THE DATE OR NOTHING (i FORGOT TO WRITE THEM !)

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Nikki December 15, 2011 - 7:53 pm

I love this idea. After reading this, I went out to our deck and grabbed the cutting that was still left there and wrote the date on it. Thanks for sharing this sweet tradition.

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Arianna December 15, 2011 - 8:10 pm

this is gorgeous. i think i’m going to write a proposal to my parents on why we should have a real Christmas tree. seriously. :))
-jocee <3

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Ingo December 15, 2011 - 8:33 pm

Great idea! It’s that kind of idea which is really great for children. You can go cutting a christmas tree, then decorate it and after a few weeks one of the kind can cut a slice of it. This schould be a special moment for the kid with a little christmas tree cutting party afterwards. And after 30 years, when we are old and grey, they will remember the great moment of cuting the tree fpr the first time. And of course, they can see the time goes by.
May be every one of the family should write a whish for the next year on the tree cut or what they are thankful for.

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Theresa December 16, 2011 - 2:25 am

I love this! So beautiful!

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Lynn December 16, 2011 - 7:52 am

I was going to do that but then didn’t…for one thing, my son buys the tree every year now so the cut is made where he gets it.
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Joanne Bischof December 23, 2011 - 4:44 am

Love that idea. So simple but special!

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