I was sitting upstairs in Samuel and Elijah’s room yesterday. As I walked in I had to avoid the massive pile of books that Samuel had decided to read earlier. As we sat and played with his John Deere tractors I glanced over, saw the books, and decided that we’ll read. Again.
I know we’ve all heard the statistics on reading. This post isn’t about those facts — although I do believe them to be true — this little blip of six reasons to read goes beyond learning and being smart. For me reading strengthens our family and creates lifetime bonds.
Six Simple Reasons Why I Love to Read to my Kids:
1 – It’s quiet. In a house full of busy and curious little ones reading is the one time of day where the volume significantly drops. Normally, if I start reading to just one, within minutes the others will find their way to our reading spot and sit down and join. After a bit the level of noise drops lower and lower — so peaceful and needed during those busy {and loud} days.
2 – It fills my heart with gratitude. As I’m sitting there reading, with my littles {and olders} around me more often then not I’m overwhelmed with thankfulness for their lives that I get to share my own life with. So often we see only the hard moments of the day so slowing down, breathing deep, and reading with them around is good for the momma’s heart and helps to change perspective.
3 – I’ve learned patience. Truly. It used to frustrate me {and still does at times, but I’ve learned to let it go} when I’d get interrupted every 4.7 seconds with a question about the book. Mom, why is his shirt red? What’s a bird? How come he’s crying? Can I have a snack? Is it sunny outside? Why is the Yangtze River in China? Is the sky blue? But, now, I’ve just had to take those deep breaths — the same ones that fill me with joy — and either answer each question or hand signal wait to the little ones as Gracie patiently waits for the next chapter.
4 – It’s taught me what my kids love. Samuel loves tractors. Those are his favorite books. Brennan loves anything with history. Right now we’re studying the American Revolution and he loves to listen to story after story about our Founding Fathers. Hannah, Chloe and Gracie just love to read. The beauty of reading to them is that it gives you a glimpse into their hearts and the things that they love that you might miss if you just ace though the day without slowing down to sit with them.
5 – It promotes communication. I just finished reading the story of Squanto to my younger kids and we talked so much about the chapters in that book. I knew the ending of the book so I watched Brennan’s face as I read and knew that we’d talk –about family, and God, and importance, and faith. And all that communication makes them curious to read and find out more. Reading opens doors and sparks interest.
6 – It produces readers. I know, this one is one of those stats that’s in the list of every reading stat, but can I just tell you it’s true? My kids love to read. We’re the family at the library that maxes out our card and then owes them $42 because we brought some books back late. It’s okay. I’ve got readers.
How do I incorporate reading into ones day? It must be intentional. Scheduled. I could easily go through my entire day working and being busy and never getting to those moments of reading. So I have it planned, and I am grateful for those beautiful moments of rest with my family.
Now, stop what you’re doing, pick up a book, and go read.
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I really love this post, Rachel. I am going to quote you in my Read Aloud Thursday post this week. I LOVE reading aloud to my kids. My favorite thing you spoke about was developing PATIENCE. YES!
Great post…
with only one kiddo so far, i completely agree!!! when we’ve played and done every activity i can imagine, i can always say, “let’s read a book!”, and ethan runs to the book basket or bookshelf and picks a few out. i love that special time together and hope that it will, indeed, encourage a love for reading! thanks for the post!
Both my Mom and Dad read to me when I was little and now I am an avid reader! I’m so grateful for the way they formed and grew my mind to appreciate the written word. I can still remember reading The Chronicles of Narnia with my Mom when I was a little girl (curled up next to her on her bed). Keep up the reading!!!
This is so good and true! Especially the teaching us patience part! : )
I remember my parents making me read for an hour or two everyday. What a gift that was. -I realize now!
I think I’m going to go read “the Little Blue Truck” to my littles now! It’s their favorite.
Reading is so important!!! I need to read to my children much more than I do. I recently borrowed The Chronicle of Narnia to read to them. I adore the quiet and how it produces conversations that we can expand on.
So true – I struggle with patience when they ask 20 questions and won’t let me turn the page but I’m getting better! My littlest loves to read his children’s Bible before bed. He chooses it every night…and I just love that 🙂
Amen! Reading is my favorite thing to do with my kids! You’re so right – it’s a window into their hearts, their interests (right now it’s trains, cats, and tractors!!!)
Gonna go read now…
Another great post Rachel! And, the part about being intentional is so good. We could apply that to many aspects of our lives.
Blessings to you and your precious family!
Timely post. Had parent/teacher conferences at school today. My son (and Elijah too!) is in 2nd grade. He tested as 5th grade level for vocab. I blame my husband. He has been reading chapter books to him since he was 4. Hobbit, Chronicles of Narnia. Now Harry Potter. Yay for reading!
Frank, my almost 17 month old, loves to grab a book and come over to me. Today I watched as he took his favorite book (Bob the Builder) and was sitting on the floor and “reading” it…out loud. Will be nice when I can actually understand what he’s saying! He has his own language right now but oh does he have a lot to say!
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i love this post! my mom read to us growing up, too. she actually intended to read the little house on the prairie books with me when i was in preschool, but i was already a good enough reader that i just took them and read them on my own!
I’m a tad bit jealous that you only owe the library $42 🙂
We left a full “milk-crate” of library books in the entry way when we headed down to Indiana, and I forgot to mention it to my husband. The one time it occurred to me was very late in the night, and I thought to myself “surely he’ll see it and realize they need to be dropped off”… ha! Never assume. He didn’t, and now, almost 2 months later, I really don’t even want to know how much we owe the library, as I’m pretty sure we could’ve just bought copies of each of the books for the money it’ll take to pay our newest fine…
but, like you said- We have readers!