They say midlife is when you stop caring what people think.
But it isn’t that simple. You don’t just wake up one day free from doubt. You don’t suddenly stop wondering if you’re enough.
Some days, you still care too much.
Some days, you second-guess yourself.
Some days, you lie awake at 3am, wondering if you’re doing any of it right.
Some days, you are grateful for the wisdom you’ve learned.
Some days, you wonder if you’ve done enough.
Some days, you finally know you’ve done your best.
And some days, you find a boldness you didn’t know you had.
Midlife isn’t about not caring.
It’s about caring differently.
Caring less about the noise, the expectations, the arbitrary benchmarks, and more about what actually matters.
Your people.
Your peace.
Your joy.
That’s the gift of this season.
It’s not that you stop caring, but that you finally learn where to put your care.
Walking this midlife journey with you.
~Rachel
ps…that’s my pic from the North Island of New Zealand at sunrise. There’s something magical (and reassuring) about the constant of the sunrise and sunset.
