This has been on my mind for quite a bit – the issue of blogging and time and if it’s important. When I was at the 2:1 Conference I had some chats with Christine Young {from Dates to Diapers} about some of the misconceptions of blogging . Then a couple weeks ago I noticed a random comment in my inbox.
To the anonymous commenter – it was just a little comment that you left on my Dear Overwhelmed Mom post – that post where I wrote about my overwhelming day and then share what I did during those moments of overwhelm. You left a comment that I felt did little to edify, encourage, understand, or even discuss.
“But I see you found time to blog.”
The nature of your comment undermines blogging.
If I had instead chosen a different outlet on that overwhelming day – knitting, crafting, writing in a journal, dancing, singing, playing piano, gardening, going for a walk, baking or more would that have received the same response? You see, for me, blogging is like art. It’s creative, it’s an outlet, and honestly it is something that I deeply enjoy. So I write about having an overwhelming day. I suppose I could create an image of a life that is perfect – with pinterest like parties and food network quality food and a living room that looked like it was pulled from an Anthropologie page. And you know, I like reading those blogs too – they inspire me to be creative, to cook better – they fill a needed niche in this online world.
But, I’ve chosen to write about my heart and finding joy in the midst of the busy – often it’s my mothering heart and the day to day ups and downs that mothers walk through.
When we meet women who make fabulous art and jewelry we encourage them to put their beauties on Etsy and to sell them to friends. They are using their skill sets to create beauty. We applaud the effort and creativity. Blogging is no different, really. The medium is the words and pictures woven together create a story, share some recipes, offer encouragement, a laugh, decorating ideas, frugal tips and more.
So yes, I found time to blog. I find time to sit, to write, to process – when my children are in bed or at times during the day where it’s quiet. And dear anonymous commenter there is nothing wrong with that. My priorities are in the right place. My home is not in disarray, the laundry is almost always caught up, I cook dinners, garden, drive to ballet, teach my kids, am active in church, have friends that I laugh with, read books, mop the floors, and more. And yet, I had an overwhelming day. Don’t we all? I think it’s best that we talk about the days that don’t go perfectly and offer encouragement to each other. For me? It’s sitting down and writing a bit of my heart.
Blogging matters, dear anonymous commenter, it matters. Blogging is another form of voice, of creativity, and of encouragement. For too long voices and creativity has been stifled by culture and society – so instead let’s embrace blogging, writing, creating, crafting, sewing, cooking, speaking, for what it truly is – a voice in this world.
Now, I’m off to go start the dishwasher, and read some books to my toddlers, weed my gardens, cook dinner, build with legos, and later today, I’ll sit at my netbook with a tablet of scratch paper next to me and I will write.
Blogging is an art.
stepping down from my soapbox….
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AMEN! You know I agree with you — thank you for addressing this in such a tactful way, Rachel. 🙂
Love you and AMEN!! 🙂
Well said 🙂
I’ve had that comment too (although in real life!). I don’t apologize for my blogging either – it’s done in moderation, it’s a creative outlet, it’s a family album. (and since I’m 5 years behind on the actual albums, and the last three kids’ pictures, it’s a good thing I have some record!) 🙂
I was just reading in Psa. 90 this morning – “Teach us to number our days that we may apply to Thee a heart of wisdom.” In everything we do, we must carefully number or measure our time – judging whether what we do is wise and worthwhile.
Thanks for this post, Rachel!
Very well said!
Love it! I for one appreciate the honesty of a day gone awry. We often want to always show our best sides and then we start to believe that everyone is that image, instead of realizing we all have bad days, we are human after all. So glad that you find calm in blogging, in sharing with others what you have to offer!
You go, girl! I have never really thought of bloging as an art, but you are so right — it is! You expressed this matter so well and with such tact. I agree with every word you said.
Thank you for posting this. Blogging truly does matter!
Beautifully expressed, with grace and gentleness. Love, love this!
Oh Rachel…
Every time I need a pick-me-up, or a “need joy” moment. You’re here!!
Thank you for being such a wise woman, an encourgager along the way.
I appreciate it too that you spoke into this anonymity so carefully and the way you shared it then gave voice to truly what blogging is and why it matters – to me.
Of all the beautiful posts you have written, this may be my favorite. (ok, for now until you compose the next masterpiece.) wow and wow. YES! Blogging is an outlet– a way to channel that urge to create that wells up inside me. If I do not create, I shrivel into myself and become a smaller person.
Does the commenter really think that giving up blogging will make all overwhelming days disappear?
Thank you, Rachel for taking the hit for all of us bloggers and for responding so eloquently.
Well said. And may I say, Your blog…it matters… to me, in ways you don’t know. (we have lots in common 🙂 So, I am so very thankful you take time to blog…I enjoy your writing, you inspire me. Thank you.
Well said, Rachel! Thank you for addressing this issue. You said everything that I have thought at one time or another. Blessings to you my friend!
I’m SO thankful you blog – you’ve encouraged and challenged me so much (and I’m not a young mum – I’m a grandmother of 68) I’ve had time and the passion to pray for little Samuel and rejoice that he looks so well. Glad you will not give up blogging – we need to grab hold of such encouragement and wisdom and Christ-centred blogging as much as we can.
Well said. It is helpful to process what you are learning. Blogging is the “book writing” of yesteryear. I am SO thankful for women who write!— And we used to have the same couch as you! 🙂
YES! I was just trying the other day to answer the question, “Why do I blog?” Since I don’t really like words. But as Jimmie said this creativeness just needs to come out and I want to share the crazy out of the box things we are doing at my house, so I blog. I love to read your blog cause you are a writer who shares her heart and encourages me in my horrible no good very bad mothering days. Love ya!!
Yes, yes yes yes yes! I feel exactly the same way and Rachel, your writing is why I read your blog. What we write matters. Those who don’t agree don’t have to come back, as far as I am concerned. And overwhelming days are par for the mothering course, whether we blog or not. They just happen sometimes. God bless!
People who feel the need to criticize in that way are very small minded.
Wonderful post Rachel!
I *do* understand looking at someone and wondering “why didn’t you just [get something done]…?” And then I look around me at all I haven’t gotten done and remember there are reasons that often aren’t visible.
And sometimes I do wonder why do [this] instead of [that]. But another lesson I have recently learned is that we each have different needs when it comes to processing life, just as we have different needs in other areas.
Some of us process silently, alone. Some need to talk it out. Some don’t seem to process at all. And some of us process best when we write. Sometimes at length. Sometimes when there are “better” or “more important” things to be doing.
So blog on. Some of us learn from reading the thoughts and experiences of others. And sometimes it’s just a fun, relaxing thing to do. thank you.
Ah, yes. This is so good, so true, and so needed. Sometimes I feel like when I’m blogging I’m losing time that I could be doing something else. Well, kind of…but blogging is necessary, too.
Thank you so much for this encouragement!!
Our voices do matter, and the way we spend our time is different from the way others spend them. Some people spend time blogging and leaving comments, others blogging and helping others through various measures…like social pr….these are so different from the norms of our society where crafting, etc are easy to accpet, like reading a book, yet what about the ‘writer’ of that book…and why is viewed different from a writer of a blog. Various questions to consider…yet, my heart goes out to your anonymous commentor. I can’t help but think that they perhaps have a hurt heart and need love….arms to wrap around them and words that encourage….just like a writer, sharing their heart, at times need the words of others to continue the writing process, to know they are not alone…to know their words are making a difference, like the artist whose work sits waiting to be purchased,the knitter waiting for someone to ask for the warmth…. for your commentor….all comments are words to be embraced….and considered….
You have expressed so well how I have come to feel about my blog. It is my craft. With many forms of art, it has given me the freedom to move past a painful period of my life. Expressing myself through my blog, has allowed me to become a more positive person not just in my words but my actions.
bwahahahaha – very well said, as I would have written “dear anonymous – the fact that you are too cowardly to leave your name does little for me to take anything you say seriously”.
So – with that …
I process everything by writing. I take notes during Sunday sermon, I take notes at break outs, I write feelings and thoughts – and prayer requests. Naturally blogging is a love for me because I LOVE TO WRITE.
So yes – “finding time to blog” to write down those feelings w/o taking them out on my kids, to reach out to others who may be feeling the same is even a BONUS of God using our times (good or bad) to bless others.
Go on girl – find the time to blog!
Thank you for this! Said everything perfectly!
I’m sure that there are many more of us out there who apprectiate the “real” blog posts about the hard days and what it is really like to be at home with our children than those who want to criticize you. Thank you for your posts, I can relate, that is my life as well!
I love it!
Beautifully and kindly written! Excellent points – all. 🙂
I think your response is so lovely and even-tempered. Me, I’m all “OK, commenter, you don’t value blogs and blogging, then I’m sure you won’t mind when I ban your IP and completely ignore your emails for EVAR! BWAHAHAHAHA!”
So yeah. I feel ya. :0)
The power of words. Whether they uplift or tear down have power. Important to remember this when we share or leave a comment. However, this comment to you, however hurtful brought about a good and that is this discussion of what blogging means to many within the community.
Truthfully, before attending the 2 to 1 Convention my thoughts on blogging were sporadic sessions on my business blog for authors where I educated and informed. This type of blogging you do Rachel, mommy encouragement, goes a long way toward helping on a deeper level!
Incredibly no matter what your vocation, you will always find the time to do the things of which you have a passion, or need to express. Thanks for sharing this post to remind us!
Just FYI, I’m still taking some pretty powerful pain meds, so don’t mind typoes and attitude too, too much?
beautifully put – and its so true, so many people misunderstand or just choose not to understsand the place that blogging takes in our lives
And by Anonymous Commenter leaving that note, you were inspired to write this blog. It serves as an honest reminder to Moms that you need to take that time to process, decompress, untangle, and reset. I am thankful you find the time to blog, because when I cannot find perspective I know you will find it that day and blog about it. 🙂
My mom always tells me that what people say tells you more about them than it does about you. But what does a comment like that actually tell you about anonymous? May I make a few suggestions? Anonymous may feel completely overwhelmed for many days of her life, not just a few. Anonymous may wish that she belonged to the blogging club, too. (I know I do! But that door is currently closed for reasons I won’t go into.) You call blogging a creative outlet–but maybe anonymous doesn’t have any kind of creative outlet right now–again there could be a variety of reasons for that. Judgmental and angry behavior usually stems from internal pain. Even when judgments sting we can choose to be sensitive to another’s hurt, and then we don’t have to feel hurt ourselves. (I’m not “anonymous”, but I often feel that way. As the number of bloggers has skyrocketed it can feel like once again you are left out of the popular crowd, just like you always have been.
Perfect Rachel… Thank you for putting this into WORDS. I will definitely be sharing it…
AMEN! I can’t believe the gall of some people. I love your blog and love how you share your heart. You inspire me to be a better Mom and I thank you!
Hi Rachel,
You addressed this beautifully and full of love. 🙂 I do have one thing to add that you didn’t really touch on.
Dear Anonymous,
Rachel helps many, many mom’s deal with toddlers and out of hand days. She gives her insight and the learning she is going through and passing them on to young mother’s who may not be at the place she is at. Her years of experience being a mother and her love for God, she is lovingly handing over to the next mom who is running the race, kind of like a relay race. Her work her is very important and I am so thankful that she makes the time to blog her day.
Blessings hon,
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Please keep blogging! That blog post was so encouraging to me. I really appreciate your words.
Amen! Beautifully written and SO encouraging! Thanks!
yes, yes, yes!!
blogging is an outlet, a release! you are such an inspiration, Rachel, and i love coming here and reading your words.
I’ve been asking myself this questions lately after being cruelly criticized and accused by someone I know in real life who thinks blogging is selfish and that my words are too “holy” and “churchy” as if I’m being judgmental and holier than thou. I’ve honestly thought about quitting all together but my husband reminded me that just because ONE person doesn’t like my words and is misreading them doesn’t mean I SHOULD quit. He even read my words the other night and said “This is good. I think you should keep writing. It might encourage someone else.” Thank you for this post, because I really needed to be reminded that ONE person’s criticism doesn’t mean I’m wrong or that my priorities are messed up. I know and, most importantly, GOD knows where I stand. HE has given me a voice and a story to share – so I’m going to keep sharing, not for MY glory, but for HIS.
Hi,
I want to say I LOVE your blog. From someone who doesn’t participate in FB or Twitter or blog herself I say i LOVE your blog.
I do however understand, not necessarily where the commenter was coming from…but that it is hard for some to wrap their minds around blogging. Especially when the content is personal. Not like say a blog of what’s new at a restaurant or trends in food, fashion, decor.
My husband is one of those people. No matter what blogs I read to him ,and he enjoys hearing them and the pleasure they give me, he thinks they are a bit of attention seeking. Looking for validation. He has also prayed for many of the people on blogs when they have asked for prayers..)
He still says on some level it is exhibitionism…narcissistic…etc.. When he says it he doesn’t say it mean like you may think. Just kinda like if these people wanted to they would keep it private or just for their families or write in a journal. No they put it on the www for EVERYONE to see.
I think he has seen some that I point out that go on and on about their special needs child/adoption (of which by the way we have both) and then post pics to go with it…so what is the world gaining by seeing these precious innocent children’s faces splashed across the internet? Yes maybe a mom reads all the awful stuff the kid did that day and doesn’t feel alone…but what about the kids privacy? Future privacy.???
That is why I don’t blog. The things I am passionate about…special needs..ADHD/ODD, adoption, chronic pain etc….It just seems like it would be hard to blog unless I kept anonymous and or did not use pics(boring) without compromising my kids/families privacy etc..offending family… I feel i couldn’t be authentic…i would be filtering everything based on who was reading..
i just saw a women have to write an apology today because of the entry she wrote yesterday about broken relationships with her older kids who had married. she has a zillion comments that day of people supporting her, encouraging her, and people saying they are in the same boat.
When I read it I thought” OMG she is gonna hear from all these kids and do more damage.”.then I thought maybe they don’t know she blogs…well they knew and they are even more distant now and mad now.
She had no intention of hurting her children. In the moment it really was about HER and HER other kids at home and how it effected them.
I am just saying it is tricky. Blogging is like reality TV in many ways. Most people don’t LOVE reality TV with the values you and I have.
So again. i LOVE your blog and many others, but truth be told I do read on somewhat of a voyeuristic level. That being said I also glean alot about homeschooling, being the best wife/Christian/mother i can be. I have bought many a book or product based on hearing about it from reviews on blogs. I have won many give aways.
I have not read the other comments , but will guess most will defend you so I am just throwing another perspective in there!
have a great one. I do admire you!
Liz
PS – I’m SO glad you share both the joys AND struggles of motherhood. I love when people are real, because it reminds me I’m not alone and that it’s okay to mess up sometimes. Motherhood is hard enough without the pressure to be “perfect”.
Yes, very well said indeed! I find it ironic that such an implication came from someone who appears to waste their time on the internet hassling others. You keep being true to you. What you are doing truly is an art. I love how you are not only finding joy, but bringing it as well. God bless!
~Lori
Your creative outlet is also such an encouragement for me and I’m sure many others. I appreciate the realness in your post because I feel that way too and often feel guilty and alone for feeling that way.
Many many blessings to you!
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I feel that, especially, for women…writing is still seen as a waste of time (the same mentality that people had over 100 years ago). That if we create with words that we are wasting time rather than doing or creating something society deems as valuable.
Wonderful response to a rather un-wonderful comment.
Good thing “She” remained anonymous. Otherwise, she may have quite a few emails in her inbox. 🙂
I am blessed each time I read your blog. Thank you for sharing your personal life with us.
Good thing “She” remained anonymous. Otherwise, she may have quite a few emails in her inbox. 🙂
I am blessed each time I read your blog. Thank you for sharing your personal life with us.
Blogging is an outlet for me too Rachel! It has helped me discover new friends, new interests, new ways to stay fresh in motherhood & marriage. Like everything else it has the potential to get out of balance, but I totally agree with you that blogging can be wonderful thing!
P.S. – Maybe your anonymous commenter was just trying to be humorous…I hope.
Amen, dear sistah! If only I had blogging as an outlet when I had littles round my feet and in house.
Maybe I wouldn’t have felt so isolated.
Maybe I would have felt a little more normal.
Bravo! Bravo! Should I print this on a business card to hand out to people? I think I might. I love the comment of “I am too busy to blog”. As if their business is more important. Like yourself, I run a pretty tight ship around here, priorities of wife, mother, home maker, home learner comes first, blogging fits in the inbetween spaces. It’s my outlet. Love to You!
I’m so thankful you do blog! You inspire, encourage, motivate, and challenge me as a mother. So thank you, thank you, thank you!
Very well said. I will be sharing this! 😉
Aloha-
I enjoyed your response to Anonymous, Rachel. I have struggled somewhat with guilt over blogging since I began my site 10 months ago. You said it well, and I will stick with writing about a life of grace because I enjoy it and I feel God is wanting me there. Blog on!
Writing is how I process everything. If I can write about it, I’ve learned it. If I can write about it, I can let it go. Sometimes I don’t publish, and sometimes I do because I know we are not the only family on the planet to deal with this or that. I asked my son today if I can blog about our new reading curriculum and how we are using it. He said “yes, but no pictures of me reading.” OK, I will ask him to approve every picture. My husband reads my blog and processes it in ways that would be lost if we had only talked about it. Yes, blogging is a very good thing for people who enjoy it. Like anything else, if you don’t like it, go do something else. 🙂
Oh, Rachel, I could not have said it any better. Well, I couldn’t have said it near as well. Fact of the matter is that it’s no one’s business how you spend your time! Love you girlie and that spirit!!!
Very well said; great post! I tend to view my blogging as a creative outlet, as well as a ministry (mainly to other homeschoolers).
I understand that blogging, for you, is a way to decompress and relax after a long day but it is more than that for those of us that read blogs like yours. I often have overwhelming hard days, I often have days where I feel like I must be the only one feeling like this because there are so many blogs that make life look perfect. So when I find a blog post about someone else feeling overwhelmed I am encouraged because I am not alone, I am not the only one, it gives me confidence that I can do it and gives me hope that everyone feels like this some days. So yes blogging matters it matters to the writter of the Blog and it matters to the readers!
I read blogs for a living and it is so refreshing to read one that doesn’t portray everything as perfect.
Blogging is an art, an expression. Thank you for saying that because there are people who don’t understand this and belittle it. We bloggers have a voice and sharing it is a good thing.
Chin up!
You did a fine job up on that soapbox! Blogging is a creative outlet, a form of art and a part of our voice. Some folks just don’t get it and that is unfortunate. I wish blogging had been around when my children were younger. It would have been such a wonderful way to communicate with the world about the daily struggles and triumphs of being a stay-at-home mom! Through blogging, we give voice to our thoughts and bring our lives into better focus. And, I for one, enjoy reading about the little things in Life – like those overwhelming or typical days!
For me too, blogging with photos and words is where I process my feelings and shape my understanding of things. It is a tool and an outlet.
Thank you for this….sharing.
i think it’s always good for us to ask ourselves why we do what we do. i’m horrible about self-evaluation, so i’m glad you wrote this, to think about why i blog. art is a gift, an expression that us creatures can use to give our Creator glory. anyways, i totally appreciate your words here.
ps. i read some of the comments above and i completely agree with Gwen. what a great verse – a needed reminder for me!
Amen. You said it so well. We take criticism for being on the computer as if we are just browsing and snooping into others lives. I’ve said a similar thing to someone before, “If I were writing with pen and paper would you say the same thing?” – I don’t think people stop to realize what they are saying. Some people watch TV 2 hours a night, but they would not hesitate to criticize time on the computer even if it is very productive time not only for the blogger, but often the reader. Thanks so much for this, it needed to be said.
This makes me regret not commenting on your blog. I read almost every post. The biggest reason I love your blog is your honesty. I feel so encouraged by your blog, not because of your failings, but because of your willingness to share what you learned from them and in the midst of them. I have never been able to read a blog until yours. There are many out there that say lovely, beautiful, wonderful things which I aspire to but which leave me feeling utterly inadequate. Not because of the authors, but because of my own weakness. However, I read yours and I always feel like there is something beautiful yet practical to take away and try to put into practice.
Great big southern {{HUGS}}. I love you so much. Thank you for being transparent. Thank you for standing up for the rest of us. Thank you… for being creative… because it ministers to me ALL THE TIME.
Yep, totally agree with this post 110%. Blogging IS an art form, and such a wonderful creative outlet.
amen & well said rachel.i don’t have a blog but i enjoy reading & getting out of my own pain from illness.i can no longer read a book because my illness has effected me in that way,but i am able to read these blogs & i am thankful to you & those who do blog & share your life.it helps me to know i am not alone in being sick.to that rude person who made the comment:if you don’t like or understand what she is saying then why do you read her blog?the commont was uncalled for,rachel were the same age.i married at age 17 & 20 yrs later were still together but we have no children.our chose.he was almost 20 & went back to school to get his deploma.he had quit school to spend time with his dad.i love reading your blog.your children are smart & talented.i also read your daughters blog because she has so much of you in her.don’t let the downers get u down
I hope you’re encouraged by all the comments – you have a gift with words and God is using you!
Well said Rachel! People who don’t blog, do not get it. Blogging can be your sanity on a crazy day.
Thanks for sharing this! I think it encouraged me a little to continue blogging=)
Best post I’ve read about blogging in a while! Thanks for sharing your heart. Everytime I visit your blog I feel encouraged to be a better mom. Thank you!
Sometimes I wonder whether why the stigma has never left blogging. And then I realized–it’s like that for all artists, isn’t it? Whether you dabble or whether your art is everything, using your creative power to change yourself and the world around you, to inspire and be inspired, comes with that risk. Artists, musicians, and writers for time immemorial have been misunderstood, laughed at, questioned, because the experience of art is not quantifiable. Blogging is yet another medium and if it’s your artistic calling then you not only can freely respond to it, you must. Much hugs to you, Rachel. I love your blog.
Very well said, from a wanna be blogger.
I agree! Beautiful post.
Being a blogger is just one of the hats I wear. And blogging is just one of the creative outlets I use with which to express myself.
Thank you for writing this post.
Don’t have time to read responses as usual but oh my you seem to have really hit on something…73 responses! Besides the fact that what you’re doing is helping, well probably more people than you can even imagine, it’s an outlet for you! It’s like telling you that you can’t take any time for YOU. You turned this around and used it for something good. I just hope that you’re at a place where comments like this don’t get to you! You put yourself out here and there will always be people who will cut you down and say mean things. Let it roll off your back and keep helping all those around you!
Am sharing two verses today. The second verse is God’s own interpretation of the first verse. When dealing with all the “floods” and vehement winds beating upon us, there is only One Sure Foundation. Praying so as you face these “floods.”
Luke 6:48 He is like a man which built an house, and digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded upon a rock.
1 Corinthians 3:11 For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ.
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I probably can’t add anything else to what has already been written, so I’ll just say thank you for using the talents God has given you and for using them for the benefit of others. Like me.
Keep writing!
I woke up this morning and I knew it wasn’t gonna be a good day- But a friend had sent me this post and it brightened it. Thanks-I’ve often tried to pinpoint why I enjoy blogging so much- I enjoy it because I enjoy it. Simple as that and it’s as valid as anything else I could choose to do. If you love words and ideas and connections- this is the perfect outlet….
Yes, yes, yes!! Blogging is an art, an outlet, a legitimate way to spend one’s time. Thank you for this post! I love it!
What else can I say that hasn’t been said already. This was perfect and needs to be shared with ALL. Thank you for speaking your mind, for blogging and enriching our lives with it!!!
Very true.
Yes. You DO need to blog. For God’s sakes, it’s not just creative, it’s theraputic!
Bravo!
Thank you for this brilliant post that shows the power and importance of blogging. It is an art. It is a skill. It takes talent and commitment, but that doesn’t take away from all of our other commitments. Bravo! I enjoyed this soapbox.
I’m your newest follower. I loved this post! Not everyone can write – it takes skill and perseverance. Your blog is helping others and that is a wonderful gift. Signed Anonymous – just kidding – Susan from Kindergarten & Preschool for Parents & Teachers.
Agreed! Too bad anonymous couldn’t find time to say something nice.
A warm hug and a big thank you for putting into words the exact things we are going through as stay at home moms like you. Reading your blog is always inspiring and helps me focus on what is truly important. So please never stop blogging, this beautiful community of stay at home moms needs your story so in turns we can cope with our days.
Love and blessing to you and your family.
YES and BRAVO! Thank you for reminding me I am not what people SAY I am. I am not the sum of their ASSUMPTIONS about my life or their ACCUSATIONS. I am worthy of a hobby and worthy of encouragement or and valuable even when I am exhausted and worn out.
What tremendous comfort we can take from eyewitness testimony! Praying!
1 John 1:1-4 That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked upon, and our hands have handled, of the Word of life; (For the life was manifested, and we have seen it, and bear witness, and shew unto you that eternal life, which was with the Father, and was manifested unto us;) That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the Father, and with his Son Jesus Christ. And these things write we unto you, that your joy may be full.
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So glad you handled this as you always do, blogging about what is on your heart and with utter honesty about how you feel. You wrote it all so eloquently and I whole-heartedly agree with you 🙂
Beautifully said – and I agree wholeheartedly with you. It explains why I receive so much joy in blogging, as well. Thank you!
To Anonymous who still thinks people should not blog, even though she enjoys reading them….
http://www.momlifetoday.com/2012/06/blogging-can-save-lives-the-power-of-transparency/
I think that there should be a balance. I don’t rant on my blog, it is a online diary for my friends, family and anyone else who is interested is welcome to read it and live our lives with us….I do have people who are interested and cannot be with us, which is why I blog. We do not do it for selfish reasons, but to be unselfish sometimes. My grandma loves to see pictures, the recipes and what books I have been reading. I honestly could care less if anyone else reads it, but I am careful. I hope my kids enjoy it someday!
Perfectly said! Cheers to you and a big fat raspberry to anonymous!
Cheers to you!
So thoughtfully written. I totally agree, thank you….
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Tacky person must be a tiny, unhappy person. You did extremely well taking control of the situation. I admire that and so will many others. Please keep up the wonderful news for us to share reading!
This is a topic that has been on my mind lately. Though writing will always be a very integral part of my life, blogging and the public sphere in which I write at times gives me pause. On one side releasing very personal information and thoughts and on the other does anyone really care what I think.
I like your stance on why blogging matters. I makes me think and smile. Positive, real people like you make me keep wanting to post and share what goes on in my life.
Thank you for your honesty and encouragement. Hope you have a wonderful day and keep writing!
I wrote a response, not directly to your post, but how it got me thinking. I wanted you to know I linked this post to it.
http://talesfromamother.blogspot.com/2012/06/is-blogging-worth-it.html
Awesome! Love this post!!!
Hi Rachel.
I’ve come back to this post after seeing it on your pinterest board. I remember this post, it came to me at a time when I truly needed it, as do many of your posts. Thank you. Tanya 🙂
In my mind, your blogging is less of a hobby or a diversion and more of a service project, benefiting your community – the community of Mothers. I feel blessed when I read your posts – they make me feel sane, less overwhelmed, grateful, which in turn makes me a better Mother. Lifting up and inspiring thousands of Mothers, making the world a better place for our children – powerful stuff.
I feel kind of sad for the person who posted that. What they said to you – that’s the voice they use with themself. I hope they keep reading and soak in your messages of love and understanding, gratitude and hope.
Agree!!! Thank you for writing this so well. Love your writing!
you said it perfectly!
thank you.
Yes! This…Amen…
Beautifully written! Thank YOU for blogging! Reading your posts is often an encouragement to me…and is some ‘ME’ time where I can soak in some words from a fellow Momma! 🙂 Blessings to you.